Every day you are confronted with mirrors They may be people, anything that happens in your life whether is considered good or bad. You have a choice as to how you respond and use what happened or how you view those you interact with. No matter what or who these mirrors can help you heal problems/issues you have and make it possible for you to change the course and way your life is headed. You have the opportunity to better understand yourself and come to terms with the unhealthy beliefs you hold towards self and release them. Thus you change your life. You will find more inner calm and happiness.
But, how do you understand what these mirrors are telling you.Everything that happens, even on a daily basis, relates to your life up until this moment and its relationship to how you accept or reject parts of who you have become. If someone rejects you and you feel unloved them you can look back to acknowledge who you really feel doesn't love you. Did a parent reject you, abandon or push you away? That is the individual you really want to love you, not the one who is currently rejecting you. Then it's important for you to understand that that person will never love you and what do you do about it?
What you do is understand that no one will ever love you the way you want or need. Therefore it is up to you to love yourself. I don't mean this in a self-center way. I mean love and accept you and comfort you instead of needing to go to others for that love and comfort. Go in your "Heart" to love you not your mind. Nothing will heal or release if you do nothing but analyze the problem. Loving self will help you and you will find forgiveness for others as well as yourself.
Life can and will change if you use others and situations as mirrors to better understand what you think of self.
Blessings
In Love & Light
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Healing the Body from Abuse/Attack
This is one of the techniques I use to help myself an d others heal from rape and abuse. I will share another, very important, technique for reclaiming the part of you that was taken away another time.
Dr. Phil addressed the issue of Domestic Violence on his show. Anyone who has been abuse/attacked continues to carry the energy of their attacker. The following technique is one way to begin releasing said energy. Also, try different forms of body work. This technique comes from my book 71 Fun Ways to Make Life Easier.
Name Physical Traits
This is a really good technique to use when the “Gold Sun” technique isn’t enough. Some individual’s energy is more difficult to send back because they want to remain attached to you for whatever the reason. To further separate your energies you will use “positive” physical traits or characteristics. This helps to further distinguish you from him or her. Also, because the person may be more difficult to eliminate from your energy, be clear of your intent. It is your intent to bring your energy back to your body from their body and send their energy back to them from your body. Whenever you have clear intent, be sure you are coming from your heart. If you get mad because the person is hanging on and send your intent with that anger you won’t be successful. Generally people hang on to someone because they want attention, to be noticed or possibly forgiven. When you send them your anger they will hang on until you accept or love them. I don’t mean deep emotional love. I mean loving acceptance of who they are and that they exist.
Here’s how it works. With loving intent use five to ten “positive” physical characteristic differences between you and someone else. You may need to name more than ten depending on how attached the individual is to your energy. The example below will help you. Avoid using negative terms to describe characteristics. For example, instead of saying, “I have long nails, and she doesn’t have long nails,” say, “I have long nails and her nails are short.” Always use the verbiage, “My name is and her/his name is.” This defines whom you are describing and whose energy belongs where. If you don't know their name use "He" has....
My name is Tony.
I have blonde hair.
Her name is Anne.
She has brown hair.
My name is Tony.
I am a male.
Her name is Anne.
She is a female.
My name is Tony.
I have blue eyes.
Her name is Anne.
She has green eyes.
Other traits or characteristic differences that you can use are your age; whether you are married, single or divorced; number of siblings or children; where you live, by either the street, city or state; height or weight; or the type or number of pets. As you can see it’s not just the physical characteristics of the body that distinguish you from others. You can include anything that is around you that is different from their surroundings. The more differences you come up with the better the separation of energies.
You may feel your energies separate or you may not. It’s not necessary for you to feel the energy shifts within your body. (The more you work with energy the more sensitive you will become to feeling the energy changes.) Even though you don’t feel a shift or change in your body, you should begin to feel better emotionally and physically. Eventually you will stop thinking about or feeling the presence of the other person.
Blessings on your Healing!
Dr. Phil addressed the issue of Domestic Violence on his show. Anyone who has been abuse/attacked continues to carry the energy of their attacker. The following technique is one way to begin releasing said energy. Also, try different forms of body work. This technique comes from my book 71 Fun Ways to Make Life Easier.
Name Physical Traits
This is a really good technique to use when the “Gold Sun” technique isn’t enough. Some individual’s energy is more difficult to send back because they want to remain attached to you for whatever the reason. To further separate your energies you will use “positive” physical traits or characteristics. This helps to further distinguish you from him or her. Also, because the person may be more difficult to eliminate from your energy, be clear of your intent. It is your intent to bring your energy back to your body from their body and send their energy back to them from your body. Whenever you have clear intent, be sure you are coming from your heart. If you get mad because the person is hanging on and send your intent with that anger you won’t be successful. Generally people hang on to someone because they want attention, to be noticed or possibly forgiven. When you send them your anger they will hang on until you accept or love them. I don’t mean deep emotional love. I mean loving acceptance of who they are and that they exist.
Here’s how it works. With loving intent use five to ten “positive” physical characteristic differences between you and someone else. You may need to name more than ten depending on how attached the individual is to your energy. The example below will help you. Avoid using negative terms to describe characteristics. For example, instead of saying, “I have long nails, and she doesn’t have long nails,” say, “I have long nails and her nails are short.” Always use the verbiage, “My name is and her/his name is.” This defines whom you are describing and whose energy belongs where. If you don't know their name use "He" has....
My name is Tony.
I have blonde hair.
Her name is Anne.
She has brown hair.
My name is Tony.
I am a male.
Her name is Anne.
She is a female.
My name is Tony.
I have blue eyes.
Her name is Anne.
She has green eyes.
Other traits or characteristic differences that you can use are your age; whether you are married, single or divorced; number of siblings or children; where you live, by either the street, city or state; height or weight; or the type or number of pets. As you can see it’s not just the physical characteristics of the body that distinguish you from others. You can include anything that is around you that is different from their surroundings. The more differences you come up with the better the separation of energies.
You may feel your energies separate or you may not. It’s not necessary for you to feel the energy shifts within your body. (The more you work with energy the more sensitive you will become to feeling the energy changes.) Even though you don’t feel a shift or change in your body, you should begin to feel better emotionally and physically. Eventually you will stop thinking about or feeling the presence of the other person.
Blessings on your Healing!
Monday, April 1, 2013
Miracles
sorry not everything came through in previous post--it's now complete
Some are calling me a miracle and here"s why. Generally anyone with stage 4 cancer is looked at "going to die". I was diagnosed in Oct 2009 as stage 4, expected to be dead by the end of 2011 for sure by 2012. Two Dr.'s told me to enter Hospice the summer of 2012. I did and left in Oct 2012 because I didn't feel like the end was that close. I did go home and say good-bye to my family in Oct 2012.
In the meantime I looked at my issues of not deserving to live and a freaky one that was a result of my religious upbringing. I was made to feel like I was a "bad girl" for having sex before marriage. I discovered that my subconscious now felt that the cancer was my punishment. I know logically that isn't true but the imprinting of religion over road those thoughts. But the point of my bringing these issues up is that by healing them I believe a miracle has happened. I decided, after years of wanting to die, that I actually wanted to live. But, in the past 3.5 yrs have been given numerous opportunities to die and yet I'm still here.
Some are calling me a miracle and here"s why. Generally anyone with stage 4 cancer is looked at "going to die". I was diagnosed in Oct 2009 as stage 4, expected to be dead by the end of 2011 for sure by 2012. Two Dr.'s told me to enter Hospice the summer of 2012. I did and left in Oct 2012 because I didn't feel like the end was that close. I did go home and say good-bye to my family in Oct 2012.
In the meantime I looked at my issues of not deserving to live and a freaky one that was a result of my religious upbringing. I was made to feel like I was a "bad girl" for having sex before marriage. I discovered that my subconscious now felt that the cancer was my punishment. I know logically that isn't true but the imprinting of religion over road those thoughts. But the point of my bringing these issues up is that by healing them I believe a miracle has happened. I decided, after years of wanting to die, that I actually wanted to live. But, in the past 3.5 yrs have been given numerous opportunities to die and yet I'm still here.
I know that my attitude, healing my issues and deciding to
live has changed everything for me. I
may not get 20 yrs but the fact that I have gone from stage 4 to remission is a
MIRACLE in and of itself. Remission
means that there are no new cells, some have reduced in size while others have
dissolved.
BELIEVE IN MIRACLES AND HEAL THE ISSUES THAT KEEP THE
MIRACLE FROM HAPPENING!!!
Blessing
In Love & Light
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