Living with Cancer

Having lived with stage 4 cancer for almost four years, I can attest to the importance of attitude.  When I enter the infusion room I see individuals with a variety of expressions on their faces and body language.  Some are angry, many are sad, some look defeated and others are scared.  Understandable considering what they are facing.  Cancer is usually associated with death--that's what most people think of first when they hear the word.

When I was first diagnosed I cried--common response.  I also wanted to know how much time I had left.  It was indicted that I might have a year.  (To her credit she, not the DR, regrets saying it and said she doesn't usually answer that question.)  I'm glad she told me because it made me really look at my issues and how I was going to deal with this information.  I felt I had issues that caused cancer to develop and wanted to clear them up so I could die in peace.  I also decided that I was not going to be afraid, angry or fall into self pity or why me attitude.

I found that my attitude was so important.  If you remain in any state of depression or anger you will miss out on the enjoyment of the time you have left.   And, I believe, you add to the emotions that feeds cancer.  If you deal with your anger and fear you will begin to enjoy every moment with everyone and everything you encounter.  Why not love every moment that you have left.  Do your bucket list or make one if you don't have one.  Stay away from self pity/poor me attitude.  Love and Live life to the fullest.

Blessings
Love & Light

Rape

Haven't written due to the effects of chemo.  It makes me a bit tired and I feel very toxic.

Have you heard about the top news station and their attitude with regards to the rape and conviction of two football player.  They feel that it's too bad that their football careers will be affected--  no mention of how this will affect the entire life of a 16 yr old girl. 

If boys-men aren't held accountable then we as a society will continue to support rape--it will never end with this kind of thinking.

Pray for an end to rape and sexual abuse!!!!

Love and Light to all survivors and those who took their lives because they were raped.

Books

Check out my books on my blog:  Self Healing and Energy techniques

Not Meant to BE

Have you ever tried putting something together and it falls apart? Do you then get mad at yourself or someone for the, so called, failure? 

Nothing that happens in your life is a failure.  Everything that occurs happens for a reason be it because you're on the wrong path, you're not listening to yourself and there's another way, or you are just to stubborn to let go.  When things don't work out don't get upset.  Instead take a step back and ask yourself, "is this project for my highest good"?  Listen for the answer or pay attention to your bodies reaction.  You will get a yes or no in your mind or your body will become tense or relaxed--and that feeling may last for only a moment--so listen closely.

If you get a no or feel tense then the universe-God-whatever you call it--is telling you that there is something better out there for you.  Instead of being upset, switch gears.  Ask for guidance.  For example, say "0kay, if this isn't right for me then I ask that something better or direction be shown to me."  

If you get a yes or your body feels relaxed but the project isn't working yet, ask to be shown where it's wrong and what you can do to correct it. 

Life is but a challenge of lessons.  Don't see things as failures but an indication that you need to be on a different path and ask that the right doors be open to you.  
Remember to ask for help from the universe and work with it not against it.

Blessing on your journey

Essence

I am Essence. I come into this body so I can use sight to appreciate the beauty of this planet. I use touch to feel the texture of life, smell to enjoy the aroma's around me, taste-for the exquisite flavors and the ability to hear life as it occurs.

Without this body those experiences would not be possible. thank you body for all you do for me in this world.

New Blogger

As a newcomer to blogging I want to reach out and help others.  My hope is to help you end the chaos in your life and find a more meaningful way to live.  Instead of living in a box of the 3rd dimension expand the way you see and interact with the world.  It's not what the world or others are doing to you; it's what you can learn about yourself and heal.  Everything that happens in your life is a "golden opportunity" for you to better understand and love yourself.  There are no mistakes or failures, just opportunities to change.

Blessings
In Love & Light
Judy

Life's Purpose

For years I questioned what others believe is our purpose on this planet. It has been held, by many that one's purpose has to do with the work you do or that you are here to help others. But, it just seemed to me that there are too many individuals working at dead end jobs; too tired to help others because of their work or family responsibilities; or that life just dealt them a difficult path to walk. If you look around, how many people do you know that are doing work they enjoy and makes them feel fulfilled? Not many! Do you think that the store clerks, receptionist or even your postal service person feel like they are fulfilling their purpose in life? I don't think so and therefore I don't believe that the work someone does has anything to do with one's purpose on earth. If so many can't fulfill what is believed to be one's purpose then is it possible that we humans have a different purpose for being here?

My belief is this: the reason for being here on this planet and the purpose that all humans can accomplish is for each of us to discover who we are and who we are not. That is, you are to learn that you are not the unhealthy beliefs that you now hold. Instead, you are to learn that, in spite of all the unhealthy beliefs you hold and have been taught, you are a Beautiful Being of Light and Love and therefore a Spiritual Being residing in a body, not a Human Being with a Spirit. Let me state that again, you are not a human being with a spirit, you are a Spiritual Being residing in a body. You are to live as a Spiritual Being filled with love, compassion and knowing that we are all one. You are to live as a Spiritual Being instead of a human being filled with fear, anger, hate, prejudice, shame, holding the unhealthy beliefs that you’re not smart enough, good enough, loveable or a nice person. You are love and can express that through your being by Healing Your Heart.
It is for you to overcome all the unhealthy beliefs you have been
taught from birth and to know and believe how beautiful you and
others truly are.

 Live as a SPIRITUAL BEING!